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My Mother's Constant Criticism |
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My mother is a nagging person because both she and my father have been educated
with many outdated ideas. No matter what I do, if she thinks it's wrong or
there's a problem with it, she opposes it.
During dinner time: (because my dad is working outside and has already eaten
with his colleagues when he comes home), I am enjoying a delicious dinner with
my mom. It's so nice, but I know it won't last, so I finish quickly. As I put
down my bowl, my mother suddenly speaks up, "Sit down, why don't you drink some
soup after finishing your meal? Drink all the soup." See, this is what my mother
likes to do most to me during dinner.
Evening TV time: I'm sitting watching the news on CCTV 1, and my mom just
finished showering and walked out of the bathroom to watch the news with me.
Finally, the news is over, and I'm thinking my TV show should be on by now! Just
as I was reminiscing about the TV show I watched the day before, a very damaging
sentence sent me back to my room to study! "Don't be sad, if there's no homework
for you, go back to your room and do your homework. If your dad comes home, I'll
tell on you." Oh my God! Why is this happening?!
Sometimes, I always wonder how I should treat my children if I become a parent.
As a kind father: "Eat slower during meals, don't choke! Drink some soup if you
want, if not, go drink some juice." "Watch TV first, remember to do your
homework after, don't tire yourself out." Or as a fierce father: "Why are you
eating so fast? No one is competing with you, what's the rush?" "Why aren't you
studying? You did so poorly on your math test, and you dare to watch TV." If I
became that kind of father, wouldn't that be unbearable? But who knows, "like
mother, like daughter."
These are just my thoughts. I wonder what my parents would say if they knew I
was thinking about these things. Would they tell me to study or...? |
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