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A Lesson in Controlling Emotions |
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Reflecting on a past incident that has left a lasting impact on me, I realize
that it was a humbling experience that taught me the importance of controlling
my emotions. At the time, I was impulsive and irrational, and my actions caused
embarrassment and displeasure to my family. Looking back, I now understand that
my immaturity and pride were the culprits that prevented me from admitting my
mistake and apologizing sooner.
The incident occurred on a dull and sultry afternoon when my father's voice,
raised in frustration, was assaulting my ears. Ignoring it at first, I was
annoyed when it continued for several minutes. My little brother's subdued
responses made it clear that my father was in his fatherly role of guiding and
advising. In my impulsivity, I banged on the piano and slammed the kitchen door
to vent my annoyance. However, my actions only caused further trouble when my
father summoned me upstairs to account for my outburst.
In my arrogance, I was ready to engage in a verbal battle with my father, but he
ignored my replies and asked me to write down my reason for the outburst. I
scribbled something in defense of expressing anger, but when pressed for a
logical answer, I made a hasty exit from the room. My father conferred with my
mother, and I was instructed to apologize for my rudeness, but I refused,
convinced that I was right.
It took the advice of my friends and two days of reflection to realize my
mistake and summon the courage to apologize. In retrospect, I understand that my
actions were immature and that admitting my mistake was the mature thing to do.
I have since learned to control my emotions and to be more mindful of how my
actions can affect others.
In conclusion, the incident that I once referred to as the "lucky incident" has
become a valuable lesson in controlling emotions and admitting mistakes. I now
strive to prevent my emotions from getting the better of my reason and to take
responsibility for my actions. |
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