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The Ideal Family |
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The phrase "my home, my heaven" captures the importance of each member of a
family playing their respective roles as well as possible to bring happiness and
create a home that feels like a heaven. Everyone desires a happy family,
including myself. In a happy family, values such as tolerance, mutual
understanding, love, respect, and honesty should support daily life. It's
incomplete if each family member only does their own work without considering
others, as the act of helping each other should be practiced in every family.
It's hard to believe if someone says they don't dream of a happy and harmonious
family. Therefore, we must free them from ignorance and darkness, as without a
family, it's unlikely we can become successful in life.
It's indeed every individual's responsibility to carry out their own duties to
create a happy family. Parents play a crucial role in building a harmonious
family and creating happiness within it. They shape their children's
personalities. Parents also provide their children with the best resources such
as knowledge and the implementation of pure values. In this era of
globalization, children are quickly absorbing everything they learn, so they
need to be fed with good and beneficial things that bear fruit. Children are
like a white cloth that needs to be colored by parents to become a beautiful
batik cloth. When they're still young, parents are their first and closest
teacher, guiding them to become well-rounded individuals when they grow up.
Children imitate their parents' steps as they are their idols when they were
young, and it's like a mold - that's how the cake will turn out. Parents should
keep in mind that their actions will be followed by their children. Ultimately,
parents must shape their children's personalities to become excellent
individuals both physically and spiritually, and this is the kind of family that
I dream of.
Moreover, parents must teach their children to distinguish between good and bad
actions, as children are naive and cannot distinguish between the two. Parents
must educate their children on the realities of life that are approved by God.
Parents must instill in their children the importance of doing good deeds and
avoiding bad ones. This will not only make them good people, but it will also
bring peace and happiness to the family. Parents must also be good examples
themselves by practicing what they preach, so their children can follow in their
footsteps.
Furthermore, a family that has mutual understanding, open communication, and
support will bring happiness and peace to the family. When family members are
able to communicate effectively and openly, they can solve problems together,
understand each other's perspectives, and support each other's growth. Mutual
understanding, open communication, and support can be achieved through various
activities such as family trips, dinner together, and discussions.
In conclusion, a happy and harmonious family is everyone's dream. To achieve
this dream, each family member must carry out their own responsibilities, and
parents must play a crucial role in shaping their children's personalities,
educating them on the realities of life, and being good examples themselves. The
family must also have mutual understanding, open communication, and support to
bring happiness and peace. By having all these elements, a family can become a
heaven on earth and bring happiness to all its members. |
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